PLEASE ANSWER!!! Why does this bother me sooo much….?

I saw a picture of my ex-boyfriend with another girl and it kinda bothered me. I saw the picture on his facebook account. I mean I dunno why I felt kinda hurt? We only dated for a month, then HE ended it saying he was busy, and we never had sex cuz he knew I’m saving myself for marriage. It seems lke he’s a player. But he was my first bf and first kiss so could that be why it bothered me? Girls have u seen pics of your ex with another girl and if so did it bother u too? How did you get over the pic and not care? I don’t understand why I still can’t get over my ex-bf. I mean I never gave him my virginity so why do I feel still kinda attached & why do I hold a soft spot for him in my heart? His staus on facebook says that he’s single so do you think the girl in the pic was just a friend? Also, on msn he was listening to PERsian music and he’s NOT persian but I am. I never introduced him to persian music & I know he never listens to this kind of music, So does it mean hes thinking of me?

read the book ” I kissed Dating Goodbye” very well written book that talks about relationships and friendships. It has a picture of a man with a hat covering his face on the cover, sorry I don’t remember the authors name…

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